‘You’re Nothing but a Parasite’: My Husband Demanded I Get a Job & Care for 3 Kids – Until I Turned the Tables on Him
Ella, a stay-at-home mom for seven years, managed a hectic household with three kids while her husband, Derek, dismissed her efforts, believing his job made him superior. After he called her a “parasite” and demanded she work while maintaining the home, Ella challenged him to take over her duties. She took a part-time job, and Derek, confident it was easy, stayed home.
Reality hit hard. Derek struggled with the kids, chores, and chaos, texting Ella for help. By week three, the house was a mess, the kids were neglected, and Derek was overwhelmed, pleading for her to quit. Instead, Ella excelled at work, earning a full-time offer with better pay than Derek’s. When she told him, he accused her of abandoning the family, but his bravado faded.
Ella’s promotions continued, outpacing Derek’s income. He tried guilt and apologies, but she held firm, moving to part-time for balance but demanding equal partnership. Derek, humbled, began helping genuinely. One night, as they folded laundry, he admitted his mistake, vowing to change. It wasn’t a fairy tale—just two people rebuilding trust and sharing responsibilities, one honest moment at a time.