Years of silence. Calls that go unanswered. A relationship that fades until nothing remains but an ache you can’t quite name.

Many parents know this quiet kind of heartbreak. And after a long stretch without news, a painful question sometimes surfaces: “If my child has cut me out of their life, can I cut them out of my inheritance?”

In France, the answer is more complex than it seems.

What French Law Actually Allows

French inheritance law is built around one central idea: Certain heirs cannot be excluded.

Most notably:

• children
• spouses
• and, in some situations, parents

For these heirs, the law automatically preserves a portion of the estate in their favor. This is la réserve héréditaire—the reserved portion.

Everything else is la quotité disponible, the disposable portion.

This part may be left to whomever you wish: a friend, a charity, a sibling, or another child. Through it, the law recognizes that emotional bonds don’t always follow bloodlines.

Can a Parent Truly Disinherit a Child?

Short answer: not because of silence or conflict.

French law is extremely protective of children’s inheritance rights. A child can only be excluded in exceptionally serious circumstances, such as:

• attempted murder or violence against the parent
• physical or psychological abuse
• malicious false accusations in court
• serious crimes committed against the parent

Even then, disinheritance is never automatic.

It must be:

• explicitly written in a valid will
• backed with evidence
• and often confirmed through legal proceedings

It is a demanding process, because the law considers the parent–child bond foundational, even when strained.

Ways to Shape Your Estate While Staying Within the Law

For parents who wish to organize things differently—peacefully and legally—several solutions exist.

1. Use the Disposable Portion

You may allocate this part freely to anyone you choose.
It’s the simplest way to honor meaningful relationships as you see them.

2. Life Insurance Policies

Life insurance is outside inheritance rules.
You may designate any beneficiary, which makes it a powerful tool to favor someone without legal limitation.

3. Plan Ahead With a Notary

A notary can help you arrange:

• • lifetime gifts
  • a carefully drafted will
  • arrangements for family businesses
  • strategies to reduce future disputes

Professional guidance ensures your wishes will be respected.

When the Heart Meets the Law

In the end, inheritance is not just about money or property. It is about values, memories, and the legacy you choose to leave behind. And sometimes, the greatest wealth is the one you decide—freely and peacefully—to share.